Wow .. finally part 1 of prelims is over... [--]' whewz .. but tat's not the end!

Had a great great tiem today. Pastor Aries taught us about hurt and don'ts in dealing with Hurt. I shall briefly summarise what he said.

6 Don'ts in dealin with Hurts.
1)Don't Ignore the hurt
-Clint Eastwood approach to hurt [ or the macho approach ]
-To think that getting hurt is nothing, it's ok to let hurt accumulate in my life. It won't affect me
-This will result in a "Denial-Cycle"
-So don't Deny hurt.
-Don't procastinate hurt. Don't put it aside and deal with it another day.

2)Don't Run away from Hurt
-Chicken approach
-Running away is like a roller coaster ride. You'll lose the "high" feeling when the ride is over. And u'll be back to square one
Ps: 55:6-8 ; John 16:33

3)Don't try to hide the hurt
-Pocessions never compensate pain
-By hiding our sins, it will intensify our hurt
-Revealing is the beginning of Healing


4) Don't Worry about the hurt
-worrying is like negative praying
John5:2 ; Ps 37:8

5) Don't resent the hurt
-Resentment will cloud your mind
-It is an emotional toxin that will poison your heart
-You'll be less or even totally unreceptive to the holy spirit

6) DON'T GIVE UP =)
-for when there is a will there is a way [my own saying :P]
-Pray to God for a soln
-Read the bible

Remember God has conquered the world. Nothing is impossible for him to accomplish in your life.
Hope this will be a blessing to many who read my blog. Cheers =D


Next : Garrick's And Garbriels Birthday PArty. The Twin's Birthday

MEN ... you should go to their house. Haa i've bet they heard the same response over and over again. When i first step into their room, i was like " !!!!!! ". Their room was soooo big. Men and guess what, they each have their own room. Gabriel's room was slightly bigger than Garrick and it has a TV inside. Haa Garrick say he needs less time compard to Gabriel to clean the room :). So either way, i supposed its a win-win situation. Whatever the case .. the room was so big, it's spacious enough to contain all of us ... [His friends whom invited he invited] which amounts to about 14. 14 people in a room excluding the twins !!!. Men they also had their relatives over and it's really lika a big big bday smash. It was very nice. Why ??? COS GOT GOOD FOOD. YUM YUM!. Got good pineapple rice ... hmmmm haaaa and not forgetting the good kway tiao, the good sweet-sour fish, Egg tofu, Chicken, Fried Wanton [cooked by Garrick himself] and bla bla more. A buffet style catering. What a fabulous time we had munching over the food. I relentlessy help myself with 3 yum yum servingz :P. Buahahhah nice food.

Then we celebrate his bday, His family + abit of w143 style. Ha how we celebrate? ok 1st after we sang them the bday song, we got Jian Xiang and another guy call Jason to cover their eyes ... a manual hand-to-eye blindfold. Then, we prepared 2 items : ice cream and Lao puo Bing[which is one of their fav food for them] with candles on top. We got them to each select one item, by saying either hot or cold. So unknowinglu, Garrick chose cold, which means he gets the ice cream and Gabriel the Lao puo Bing. So we sang the bday song again ... and after that we let them see what they chose. Haaa .. the fun part was when we ask them to eat their selected item without spoon. So, Garrick had a pretty hard time eating his ice cream while Gabriel happily enjoyed his Lao Puo Bing. Haa den the very very funny part happen. The sisters suggested to let them feed each other. So Garrick happily delivered the bowl of half-melted ice cream to Gabriel's face. Haa we can see Gabriel strugglign to lick and taste his Ice cream. Likewise, Gabriel thrusted the Lao Puo Bing into Garrick's mouth. LOL very funny. hehe

We had a great tiem fellowshipping and playing games there. We had fun all the way till 10.30 pm. So it's pretty late but we really had alot of fun there. Alot of laughters ... and sharing . So pretty cool bday party!! Thx for inviting me Garrick =D haa by now their bday shld be over. hmmm well guess tat's all. Did i overtyped? haha hands too itchy in the middle of the night =P