Relationships

There are many motives into relationships. Just thinking abt it this morning..

Shall be continued in the evening.. :)


its in the morning!


well i just have a chat with dear last night.... and received a prayer of blessing for madeline. my dajie! woohoo!


She talk about the importance of communication and also being focus on what we have to do right now... seeing we are both students and taking up multiple responsibilities.


Speaking of which ... i really apppreciate her telling me to be ready that we wont probably have much time talking ... seeing each other.. or going out together. This actually saddens me... and im sure her as well.


But in all these things .. i can choose to be sad and complain. it isn't fair. there isn't enough time all the time. some others have 12 hours to spend every week with their loved ones... but i only have just 1 or 2 hours every week.


Looking back... looking at Sun and Ps Kong.. can u imagine their sacrifice over the last few years... how many moments... long moments that are like that for both of them?



In a relationship... any relationship. there is always a taker and giver. the 'taker' is motivated by the flesh.. and it always screams .. I WANT this .. and I WANT that in my relationship. It is self-serving ... and it has a huge appetite for attention and need. Mr. Taker has a very high expectation on his partner and will make his partner - die die live up to it.


Mr. Giver is different. He is patient. He is kind. He is not proud or boastful. He seeks to understands first, than to demand. He always expects the least, and gives the best. He knows that as he gives... that's the way God will reward him back in other areas. Because He knows he can never outgive God. especially in relationship.



Selfish motives - like getting into a rln.. to fill a security. to fill a particular thirst-quenching need... often drains the partner. It is a love-buster.


But Selfless motive - is saying i really am thankful for what i have. i am contented. and i will do and work out what is best for the partner ... and for the glory of God.



I realise it more and more when i hang out with her. This dear person in my life that i am not determine to let go. She carries this virtue.. that comes from many many heartaches and pains.. and eventually she grew and became a wonderful lovely lady.



I love her because she carries virtues that touched every man's heart. Most importantly... she loves me back too. for who i am.


Im thankful :)


Thank God.

Ng, sent via iphone �
[Godliness with contentment is great gain]