Love talk

Heard this from Friday's edition of living room at 93.8live


The gist of it all:


When romantic love ends, there is where true love begins. When all the romance fades.. the love takes into a new level of maturity where true effort of loving begins. The fruits start blossoming here.



To maintain a relationship, always think of doing what's best for the relationship, for the marriage.




Relationship does one great thing in your life : it makes you a better person! [ you'll see love, kindness, patience, and other rare to see virtues ].



Love like a R.O.C.K.S.T.A.R.


For Men, women need-

Routinely contact- spend frequent times with her. listen to her.

Open your heart and mind- say/do positive things to her. she'll feel lifted.

Contact- stay connected in thinking. Touch. Didn't catch much on air

Keep it positive- understand women usually complain for attention. women usually connect to each other this way. Men sees complain as their failure to effectively protect her. (men is built in this way). keep the conversation positive.


For ladies, men need:

Sensuality- Oxytocin rush. check more details here. Didn't catch much on air.

Touch- amazingly men needs 2-3x as more touch than guys according to survey. e.g. A pat on the back... a hug.


Appreciation - maintains relationship for both parties. Appreciation affirms his role as a care-taker, leader and protector of the family.


Respect- Men are creatures of routine. They perform repeated habits usually and are more resistant to changes. Understanding and respect for their habits. Didn't catch much on air =p





for husbands and wifes, the marriage is substain not by a great holiday or an event. But by the way hundreds and thousands of things you do for each other. the commitment to each other is more important than the romance.


By Doctor Love Pat.




well i find some points really true for men and ladies. yours to ponder..