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Leadership

all around ... 've been blessed with great messages about leadership. Its really impactful. I think if we can just take a thought and apply just once principle of it in our lives... we'll be temendously blessed! :) :) - be a man after God's heart : that is be a people-person. - be a companion. a parakletos. a friend. a comforter. helper. advocate. stand-by-you friend. - wal-mart principle : MBWAL - Management by walking around and listening - help people in their needs. meet it. if not be there with them to see it through. - serve people by seeing thing from their p.o.v. - lay your lives for your friends. James 15:13 - don't be distracted. threatened. or fall in 'life's routines'. Stay focus on your calling. ..by Pastor Tan - don't undermine potential. look out for potential in people and maximise it during your planning. - put yourself in the shoes of your sheeps. see things from their point of view. - be bold and decisive. take ownership. if someone is...

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i've been feeling easily irritable this few days. and kinda tired. probably is cos of my week long sickness.... since asia conference .. had fever, flu, headache, giddiness .. etc... very funny spells. Im kinda not sure what hit me so hard that im down with so many things... but its draining to have so much symptoms all acting up on me.. :( but by His stripes i'll be HEALED :) HEALED! HEALED!! OLAY! oh ya ... today.. admist of my sickness.. i feel very provoked by my colleagues "in a way"... i think even if you are not happy with the current work you do... you don't have to spread the unhappiness around you know? sometimes i feel very 'oppress' by the language my friends used. so i'll feel quite negative over all these things... sometimes it makes me feel i have to "listen" to them because of their outburst of dissatisfaction. I think some of my sentiments are probably just - "me thinking too much" nevertheless... i find it hard t...

death

Ps Kong once said the greatest potential we can uncover is found 6 feet under.. 6 feet under amongst the dead. i just receive news on late night monday that my pri sch fren committed suicide on monday itself. im not very close to him actually.. can say that we are of a different clique.. but as i visited his cremation ceremony, i cant help feelin how fragile life is. hw impt it is to cherish... and just abt 10 years ago... we were all young kids : happy, silly, ignorant kids .. packed with ambitions half laden with naiveness.. and then we are seem like distant islands... and now he just went away. sigh..... well i just wanna say.. whateva frens we've got... learn to cherish it well. we cant always maybe meet up... but it never hurt to sms, call .. or just send surprises to someone we know. after all life is short. never leave a day with regrets.